Winging It vs. Online Dating vs. Hiring A Matchmaker
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Just wanted to cover a few bullet points on the benefits of hiring a matchmaker in your area - vs. winging it on your own vs. online dating.
Winging It -
Yes, you may know what's best for you... but often times, you get blinded and can make some pretty weird decisions. Do you ever feel like every guy/girl you date is the same? That is probably because you are drawn to a certain type. When choosing a lover on your own, it can be hard to go outside of your norm. You can be drawn to certain physical attributes (i.e/ a person with a certain complexion, going after a certain height, body type, etc) - which will prevent you from focusing on finding what truly matters when finding a soulmate - their heart. Don't get blinded by looks and end up missing your blessing.
Online Dating -
Although online dating has proven to work for many, there are many things you want to be cautious of. People can be whoever they want to be online and have you all the way fooled. From looks, to lifestyles, to their backgrounds, etc. If online dating is your preference - more power to you. Just be sure you proceed with caution. Take a buddy along with you when meeting the other person for the first, second - third through thirteenth time! Try to read between lines and connect dots as much as you can. This isn't meant to make you scared of online dating - I know people who have met their spouses by doing so. I just want to make sure you know there are other ways to find your true love. Hiring a matchmaker, having your friends set you up on dates - those are just a couple.
Hiring A Matchmaker / Love Guru -
Here's where I come in! I mean - who doesn't want their very own wing-woman?! Sometimes all you've been missing was that outside perspective - someone who can dig a bit deeper and find out exactly what it is you are looking for. Someone who isn't going to just agree with your decisions because you two are friends. Here's the catch - you have got to have an open mind. One more time for the people in the back.... YOU HAVE GOT TO HAVE AN OPEN MIND!!!!! You have a Build-A-Woman or Build-A-Man Checklist? I will not guarantee that all of the ingredients in your recipe are really required. Maybe that's why all of your exes turn out to be the same. Just sayin'. As long as you have an open heart and an open mind - this process should work wonders for you!
xoxo,
Matched By Mecki